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3. Code of Conduct


BERFC Expected Codes of Conduct

Players Code

  • Play for fun
  • Play by the rules
  • Do NOT argue with the referee
  • Control your temper
  • Never give up
  • Be a good sport
  • Be fair
  • Improve your skill
  • Don't be selfish
  • Don't show off
  • Listen to your coach


Coach's Code
The essence of good ethical conduct and practice is summarised below. All coaches must:

  • Be reasonable
  • Teach them to play by the Rules/Laws
  • Avoid mismatches
  • Don't favour your best players
  • Never condemn
  • Being coached should be fun too
  • Get the right equipment and facilities
  • Give your voice a rest
  • Be generous with praise
  • Good coaching means they run with the ball
  • Doctor knows best
  • It's your players who matter - not their won/lost record
  • To be aware of and meet the requirements of the RFU code of conduct, where not in conflict with the above


Code for Parents and Spectators

  • Never force a child to play rugby
  • Always remember children play rugby for THEIR enjoyment- not yours
  • Encourage your child to learn the rules and play within them.
  • Teach your child that victory isn’t everything and help your child to recognise good performance.
  • Never punish or belittle a child for losing or making mistakes.
  • Applaud good play – by all teams and players competing.
  • Encourage your child to improve skills through coaching.
  • Stay off the pitch at all times.
  • Discourage unfair play and arguing with officials.
  • Publicly accept officials’ judgements.
  • Support your child’s involvement and help them to enjoy their sport.
  • Use correct and proper language at all times.
  • Be a PROUD parent – Not a LOUD parent.


Code for Club Officials & Volunteers
The essence of good ethical conduct and practice is summarised below. All volunteers must:

  • Consider the well-being and safety of participants before the development of performance.
  • Develop an appropriate working relationship with performers, based on mutual trust and respect.
  • Make sure all activities are appropriate to the age, ability and experience of those taking part.
  • Promote the positive aspects of the sport (e.g. fair play).
  • Display consistently high standards of behaviour and appearance.
  • Follow all guidelines laid down by the national governing body and the club.
  • Hold the appropriate, valid qualifications and insurance cover.
  • Never exert undue influence over performers to obtain personal benefit or reward.
  • Never condone rule violations, rough play or the use of prohibitive substances.


Any child who suffers from concussion during a game will not be allowed to play for 1 month, and then only with his/her Doctors consent

Parents must make sure that their coach is informed if he/she has any medical problems